I asked a friend today what is his view on a relation right now. The kind where we group in love.
The grow in love,
The be in love,
The fall in love.
This is what I understood…
Look at us creating a bubble.
And doesn’t it look amazing while it’s growing.
They start from a surface themselves, we start from each other. And that surface joins together to create a space we find each other in, we create space for each other. We create a relation. That space is that relation.
We blow in it so carefully. So damn carefully.
And so it grows.
Now, the bubble does something to this space.
It sort of delicately secures it.
It secures you. You secure each other. Mentally, emotionally…you find comfort yes? In each other.
This bubble narrows your exposure down to that space.
“That one person.”
You give some confidence to that.
There is this thing about bubbles.
You only find out after you’ve touched this bubble… or after it’s been touched or has touched.
No one’s ever bursted a bubble from inside. You must be outside the space, the relation, to burst it. Everything else that isn’t either of you inside that space is usually not able touch, or prick your bubble.
But also, this can happen…
The pressure within can refuse to be contained inside your bubble.
Mhhh…but here we are still
bubbles are beautiful.
I bet you’ve seen that rainbow thing they form in the sun yah?
We have to understand them and accept how delicate they are. We have to be poised enough to take the burst when it happens if it does happen. You can’t just look at a bubble and predict the exact millisecond it will burst can you? At least remember, when it does, it doesn’t burst out into a vacuum .
Dear legit society, be ready to inhale that air.
I mean it’s always been there doing what air does, your life as an individual being has and will always be there
You just took a moment focusing on a specific space, a relation and that’s fine, that’s allowed.
To be in a bubble.
Why did the bubble cross the road tho?
Its pop was waiting on the other side
*insert saltguy emoji